Books to Spark Neuro-Affirming Conversations & Emotional Growth

We love finding creative and compassionate ways to connect with children - especially when it comes to exploring big emotions, unique ways of experiencing the world, and celebrating neurodiversity. One of the most powerful tools we use? Books. Whether you’re a parent, educator, therapist, or support worker, the right story can open up meaningful conversations and help children feel seen, safe, and supported.

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Here are some of our favourite neuro-affirming and emotionally supportive children’s books- each one a gem in its own right 💎

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Holdin’ Pot

Author: Chandra Ghosh Ippen

Recommended Age: 3–8 years

What It Supports: Emotional regulation, self-awareness

The "Holdin Pot" is a metaphor for how we carry emotions inside of us. Children learn that when the pot gets too full, our feelings might spill out - and that’s okay. It’s a fantastic resource for helping kids name their emotions, recognize emotional build-up, and explore strategies for letting out feelings in safe, supported ways.

The Brain Is Kind of a Big Deal

Author: Nick Seluk

Recommended Age: 5–10 years

What It Supports: Brain-body connection, individual differences, curiosity about how we work

This quirky, funny, and educational book makes brain science super accessible to kids. It helps them understand how their brains help them think, feel, move, and respond to the world—empowering neurodivergent children to understand and celebrate their brains just as they are.

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Do It Bad

Author: Didi Dragon

Recommended Age: 4-8 years

What It Supports: Self-compassion, overcoming perfectionism, growth mindset

This empowering read encourages children to try new things—even if they’re not good at them yet. It challenges the pressure to get things “just right” and celebrates learning through mistakes. Perfect for neurodivergent kids who might struggle with anxiety or a fear of failure, this book sends a strong message: it’s okay to “do it bad” and still be brave.

Little Senses Series

Author: Samantha Cotterill

Recommended Age: 3–8 years

What It Supports: Sensory awareness, inclusion, self-advocacy

This incredible series was created with autistic children in mind, featuring stories like "This Beach is Loud!" and "Can I Play Too?" that validate sensory sensitivities and social differences. With thoughtful text and supportive illustrations, these books help all children understand and embrace different sensory experiences.

Meesh Makes Friends

Author: Tom Percival

Recommended Age: 8–12 years

What It Supports: Social connection, identity, navigating friendships as a neurodivergent child

This graphic novel follows Meesh, a shy and imaginative girl who struggles with making friends and fitting in. It’s a beautifully relatable story for kids who may feel different or overwhelmed in social settings. It validates those feelings while showing the value of being true to yourself.

Wild for Winnie

Author: Laura Marx Fitzgerald

Recommended Age: 4–9 years

What It Supports: Advocacy, inclusion, understanding autism

Winnie experiences the world a little differently. Through warm and humorous storytelling, this book normalizes common autistic traits and sensory differences, while celebrating Winnie’s strengths. A wonderful choice for classrooms, siblings, and building peer understanding.

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Flap Your Hands: A Celebration of Stimming

Author: Steve Asbell

Recommended Age: 4–9 years

What It Supports: Stimming, sensory regulation

A book that celebrates stimming as a valid, joyful, and regulating part of being neurodivergent. This vibrant and empowering read is a celebration of movement, expression, and sensory needs.

A Day With No Words

Author: Tiffany Hammond

Recommended Age: 4–10 years

What It Supports: Nonspeaking communication, inclusion, empathy

Told through the lens of a Black autistic family, this book shares the experience using an AAC device instead of speech. It offers a beautiful and realistic insight into nonspeaking communication, encouraging readers to rethink assumptions about language and connection.

Books can help children understand themselves, connect with others, and feel seen for who they truly are. Whether you’re raising or supporting a neurodivergent child, these titles are a great place to start conversations, build emotional awareness, and create a neuro-affirming environment where every child can feel safe to explore.

Do you have a favourite neuro-affirming children’s book we should check out? Let us know - we’re always looking to add to our library! 📖💙